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Title: I want to know that if my wife has no fault and my parents ask me to divorce my wife then what should I do?

Question: I want to know that if my wife has no fault and my parents ask me to divorce my wife then what should I do?

Answer ID: 37112Posted on: Sep 1, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

(Fatwa: 483/270/H=1433) It is not wajib to give talaq. Keep on making your parents understand with politeness and wisdom. Also provide them physical and financial support. Always, pay respect and honour to them. If they react in anger, reply them politely and in good manner.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,

Darul Uloom Deoband, India

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Title: I want to know that if my wife has no fault and my parents ask me to divorce my wife then what should I do?

Question: I want to know that if my wife has no fault and my parents ask me to divorce my wife then what should I do?

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