- Social Matters >> Rights & Etiquettes
- Total Questions : 111
- Q. I am married for the last 23years. My mother is old but from the date of my engagement(arranged by my parents)my mother is not satisfied with my spouse and my inlaws giving false allegations. Becuase of the said reason I separated my spouse so many times from my house but she always remained obedient. On one pretext or other(baseless) my mother leaves my house and prefer to remain away from us. I am the only son of my parents among five daughters. My father has expired some time before. I am not in a position to motivate my mother not to do these actions. My relatives and even my sisters have full sympathy with me after realising the facts. Whenever I or my spouse try to see my mother she gets irritated and speaks the words which r not tolerable. I am now frustated what to do. Please guide me in the matter as per shariat.
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- Q. Saying "Assalam o alikum" on SMS, or on chat at any web messenger, does it fall into the Fazilat of salam as mentioned in Hadiths ? Secondly is it necessary to reply for it ?
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- Q. My mother is a widow. She used to stay wth me . now she is forced to stay with my married sister as my wife refuses to even give her a glass of water or food. she also refuses to talk to her, saying she is under no obligation under Islam to treat my mother kindly even if I command her to. i am usually away during day time. Is it right in Islam? And if my wife is wrong, should I divorce her? I have two pre-teen girl children from her.
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- Q. My mother died on Dec'09. I was her eldest son. I live in Dhaka. Before she died she came to my house. I quarrelled with her severely because she wanted some money to repair our native house at Jhenaidah (our district). I refused to pay. Besides I was frustrated helping my parents, brother and sisters. Now often I dreamt her and quarrel with her and cry in the dream. Please answer the meaning of the dream and advice.
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- Q. Both husband and wife are widowers if married together
1. The childrens of both the widowers should be treated us one family members or not.
2. Whether the second husband become a father to the first (deceased) husband's children or not.
3. Whether the second wife become a mother to the first (deceased) wife's children or not.
We need a legal openion as per shariath law.
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- Q. I have one doubt on morning greetings.
Which of the following greetings is the best when it comes to greeting muslims in the morning.
a) Assalaam alikum
b) Subah al khair
Please guide..
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- Q. I teach kids Quran at several makhtabs and at the end of the month I collect fees. My mom wants all of the money I earn from teachings kids, I give her the majority of the money but keep some. Is it permissible for me to keep some money without my mom knowing as I'm the one earning the money, etc., ? P.S She thinks I'm giving her all the money Jazakallah
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- Q. I have a question about greeting elders. In our culture, the young bend down to greet their elders and the elders put their hand over the head and make a dua. I wanted to know if it is permissible Islamically to greet your father, grandfather, etc. by lowering the head?
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- Q. A kindly Request Regarding Huquq of my father. After marriage i am leaving separtly in rent house.due to misunderstanig. my house rent is 2000.my salary is 7000 now. and my father is asking me to give 1500 per month for his expenditure. I have 1 sister and 1 brother mother expire last 2 year back. my father is pensiner and we have Extra 1 house given to rent and getting 3000. and at the time of separting me my father did given even a singal pisa. A kindly request to suggest me on this.What i have to do.
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- Q. I got married in may 2009 i am working with international company which works in night shift. i am working in night shift. there are 2 holidays in a week. as as a part time i am also doing business with forgein students which i do it in the two days holiday which i get in a week to maintain the relation with them i have to be with them late night as i got loans which i have to repay as soon as possible that the reason i am wworking throught the week and also late night. this is not acceptable by my family and my wife they have many compalins like i dont give time to them. But they dont understand my situation that i have to pay my loan. my question to you is if i continue this work load and dont give time till i complete my loan am i doing wrong with my family and wife or not giving them thier HAQ.
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- Q. what r the rights of foster mother in islam?
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- Q. Salam I need to know being internal auditor i have to forward the department weakness to managment for control and on some occasion update the managment about the working of individual staff on specific occasion. I need to know whether it come under the ambit of gibbat or not?
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- Q. AsalamuAlaikum, I was wondering if you could inform me of a hadith which says that we are not allowed to bring up someones sins. Like for example, if somebody was a thief before and he has repented sincerely, then no one should refer to him as a thief anymore right, and bring up his past sins..? so could you find me a hadith (and its source) that says something similar to this, like to not bring up another's past sins... Thank you and Salam.
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- Q. I am working with non muslims,Europenes and there is normal practice to say good morning ,when we meet in office in morning 1.Is it OK to say good morning?Good afternoon?Good night to these non muslims? 2.Now days it has become prctice in muslim/arab community alos ,is it OK to greet like this to muslims?
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- Q. Asalamualaikum Q-Is it permissible or bidat when you meet a muslim or write a letter to say or write the word salaams for short instead of Assalamualaikum?
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- Q. what are the farz , when two muslims meets. In a MNC if we are saying Good Morning or Good Evening instead of Salama , is this fine. Please explain if possible with refrence.
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- Q. is it compulsory for a muslim that after marriage he have to stay alone with his wife & childrens leaving his parents & brothers & other family members? what are the conditions in which one have to get seperated from his joint family? please explain in detail?
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- Q. If some one sneez and does't say alhamdullilah or may be saying silently,is it obligatory for person who is hearing to say "ya rahmkullah???
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- Q. Assalamualaikum, Dear Sir, with due respect i wanted to ask you that leaving parents behind for the sake of better career is rightful or not? Note that the parents both are healthy, managing their financial status by themselves in a good way, other younger brothers still living with them, also they are showing complete happiness about the situation, my point is that one always know that parents are never happy at heart for leaving the kids stay away from them (even if they have many) but always are happy as they want their kids to grow & propser. JAZAKALLAH' KHAIR. Wassalam
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- Q. If I am in the washroom and one of my parents calls me, should I answer them or answer them when I come out?
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