Title: I want to ask my husband has the habit if telling in anger mostly go away i am fed up of u he has told many times but he cares me alot adn he is very loving but i have heardx even if u say like this it would constitute talaaq if u have intention, when i asked him after someyears what was his intention he doesn't answer what should i do. I am affected very badly by this rule how will i come to know weather my relationship with him is halaal or not? He used to say like this even for silly matters when he was angry it was his habit.

Question: i want to ask my husband has the habit if telling in anger mostly go away i am fed up of u he has told many times but he cares me alot adn he is very loving but i have heardx even if u say like this it would constitute talaaq if u have intention, when i asked him after someyears what was his intention he doesn't answer what should i do. I am affected very badly by this rule how will i come to know weather my relationship with him is halaal or not? He used to say like this even for silly matters when he was angry it was his habit PLEASE HELP ME

Answer ID: 23948Posted on: Sep 1, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

"Go away" is amongst the words of metonym (kinaya) in which intention is necessary whether he pronounces it in consent, anger or talaq discussion. Hence, nothing can be said regarding the talaq until the statement of husband is not confirmed. So, manage to get the intention of husband. In addition, until your husband does not express his intention it is lawful for you to live with your husband. Moreover, if he had said the said words with the intention of talaq then its bad consequence will reach to him alone.