Title: My Question is i liked my cousin 4 years back and at that time i asked my mother permission as well she said ok i agree.But there was no proper engagement or nikkah or even talked between our parents happened. But now after 4 years mother is taking out lots of negative things in that girl and my mother is also saying that you are helping her family alot and i am noticing from the beginning but now is enough and mother is saying they are involve in BLACK MAGIC etc etc and i know i did not help her or her family in any cause ...Now for us its like getting a divorce after long JUST friendship and conversations of our future etc etc. Now what should i do? Do i have to follow my mother instruction or fight with mother which is not the solution i m confuse please advise and i have already told my cousin that i cant marry you and my family is happy but is there any solution becuase me and my cousin we are not able to find a peace we are praying to Allah Subhanatallah but still no peace please advise.

Question: My Question is i liked my cousin 4 years back and at that time i asked my mother permission as well she said ok i agree.But there was no proper engagement or nikkah or even talked between our parents happened. But now after 4 years mother is taking out lots of negative things in that girl and my mother is also saying that you are helping her family alot and i am noticing from the beginning but now is enough and mother is saying they are involve in BLACK MAGIC etc etc and i know i did not help her or her family in any cause ...Now for us its like getting a divorce after long JUST friendship and conversations of our future etc etc. Now what should i do? Do i have to follow my mother instruction or fight with mother which is not the solution i m confuse please advise and i have already told my cousin that i cant marry you and my family is happy but is there any solution becuase me and my cousin we are not able to find a peace we are praying to Allah Subhanatallah but still no peace please advise.

Answer ID: 7467Posted on: Sep 1, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

(Fatwa: 1119/973=L/1429)

One should marry with the advice and consent of parents, it will have more blessings. If you want to marry your cousin, first you should get the consent of your mother. You should not marry without her consent.