• Social Matters >> Nikah (Marriage)

    Question ID: 32403Country: Pakistan

    Title: Marrying a girl to whom I dislike

    Question: My parents are forcing me to marry a girl of their choice against my likeness. I tried to obey them and got engaged with that girl. But, I am not satisfied and don’t want to marry her. This thing keep me disturbed all the time that how would I spend my whole life with a girl I don’t like. This is urging me for bad behavior with parents and others that would cause the wastage of my virtues. In this case should I obey my parents? and when I have got engaged with that girl?

    Answer ID: 32403

    Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

    (Fatwa: 957/L=365/TL=1432) If you do not like that proposal then you should cancel it before nikah in any case, because the situation gets critical after nikah and it brings far reaching wrong outcome. You should terminate this proposal yourself or by anyone else wisely.

    Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best

    Darul Ifta,

    Darul Uloom Deoband, India