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Title: I would like to know is islam gave the permission to have nikkah with a girl with whom u have sexual relationship before?

Question: I would like to know is islam gave the permission to have nikkah with a girl with whom u have sexual relationship before?

Answer ID: 31134Posted on: Sep 1, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

(Fatwa: 498/417/B=1432) Yes, it is allowed rather the nikah of an adulterer with an adulteress is better.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,

Darul Uloom Deoband, India

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Title: I would like to know is islam gave the permission to have nikkah with a girl with whom u have sexual relationship before?

Question: I would like to know is islam gave the permission to have nikkah with a girl with whom u have sexual relationship before?

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