Title: Salam Walaikum, I am 30 Years old married with no childrens, working and livig in a middle east country with my wife. recently one of my cousine sister who is in her 40s and widowed just after 5 years of her marriag came to this country alone as a teacher, offcourse with the hope that a relative is here to support her in any un expected situation. because i want to get married second time, once in my visit to her home i proposed her. she is agreed with a condition that the marriage should be secrect for ever with my wife and every 1 both in our relatives as she has got 1 married doughter and son in law and i shouldn't expect any childrens also other wise, Not agree. Please advice.
Question: Salam Walaikum, I am 30 Years old married with no childrens, working and livig in a middle east country with my wife. recently one of my cousine sister who is in her 40s and widowed just after 5 years of her marriag came to this country alone as a teacher, offcourse with the hope that a relative is here to support her in any un expected situation. because i want to get married second time, once in my visit to her home i proposed her. she is agreed with a condition that the marriage should be secrect for ever with my wife and every 1 both in our relatives as she has got 1 married doughter and son in law and i shouldn't expect any childrens also other wise, Not agree. Please advice.
Answer ID: 11128Posted on:
Sep 1, 2020
Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !
(Fatwa: 287/233=L/1430)
When you want to marry your cousin, you should do it openly; secret marriage involves so many complications and evils. Moreover, adopting any permanent method to prevent child birth is haram for you.