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Question ID: 57666Country: United Arab Emirates

Title: Relationship

Question: My husband, his parents and siblings are not in good relation with my father-in-laws relatives. They don’t contact each other. In this case what is my responsibility?

Answer ID: 57666Posted on: Sep 1, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

(Fatwa: 276/279/B=04/1436) Just maintain your relation with your husband and his parents well and show no interest in their internal affairs.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,

Darul Uloom Deoband, India

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