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    Question ID: 153Country: United Kingdom

    Title: I am having feelings for a boy I know. I know it is wrong, but i can not stop thinking about him. Can u please tell me what i should do?

    Question: I am having feelings for a boy I know. I know it is wrong, but i can not stop thinking about him. Can u please tell me what i should do?

    Answer ID: 153Posted on: Aug 30, 2020

    Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

    (Fatwa: 142=138/L)

     

    Do not pay your attention to the feelings when they come and do not respond to these feelings. This may be difficult on your nafs (self) but there is no way except it. Also, you should keep yourself away from the boy as much as possible and recall the punishments of Allah and that lest your life of Aakhirah (the world hereafter) should not be ruined.

    Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best

    Darul Ifta,

    Darul Uloom Deoband, India