- Social Matters >> Nikah (Marriage)
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- Q. You have already given your answer to my question in fatwa number 1871, regarding the sucking of genitals. but my husband refuses to believe this, & i'm forced into this act. He insists it's not written anywhere in Sahih Bukhari or Muslim, and is probably a zaeef hadith. Can you please give me the exact hadith with the number so that i can show it to him? thank you.
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- Q. I have been married for 36 years. my wife is very sick and i cannot have sex with her, so i want to marry again. since i have to treat both wives equally, 1]do i have to give my second wife the same amount of meher i gave my first wife? 2] do i have to give my first wife whatever clothes/jewellery i give my second wife at the time of marriage? 3] i have to spend lakhs of rupees on my first wife's illness. do i have to give the same amount to my second wife also? i cannot really afford to do so. 4]my first wife has said that she is willing to give up her time with me for my second wife but i should let her stay on in the house in which she is now living and bear her expenses. she is 57 years old and does not have any one else to help her, or have a place to go to. she needs to stay in mumbai because of her treatment. i have a much smaller house outside mumbai in which i will have to live with my second wife. is this islamic? 5] do i have to give my second wife the same amount of money that i have given my first wife over 36 years? please reply urgently, as i plan to remarry within a very short time.
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- Q. I want to marry a girl but our parents are not agree because of cast system and one other problem of girls side is that he her father not an earning one in home he depend on their son and all son depend on their wife family matter her sister in laws not agree to marry with me but we both are earning we are both in delhi now and we want to do the Nikah but here Qazi told us first bring the father and mother of girl here then we do the same thing we do not want to go to court because we want to do the nikah first then we registered our marriage in court so suggest me where we complete our nikah and how it is possible . we are not going to any sin so why all qazi ask first all these things please help me
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- Q. Marriage is expected to be performed after 1 month. Primary talks are done happily between two families. Regarding this situation, a local Aleem says: 1. Both the boy and girl can talk to each other over phone in the mean time since their marriage proposal is agreed between two families and a probable time-period is setup to finalize it. 2. It is also the Sunnah of Rasulullah (SAWS) to create a lovely period/situation between boy and girl before marriage. I would like to know, whether the answers given by the Aleem are right according to Islamic Shariah.
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- Q. I hope this find you in good health. I had a question about the interpretation of two dreams. I have been doing an Istekhara for a guy whom i would like to marry, but if the answer is negative, May Allah give me the strength to accept it and stay away from anything which is not good for me. In the first dream, There are two groups of people on two pedestals, and the one with the guy is higher, because im looking up at him. One group was wearing black and the other was wearing green, but i dont remember who was wearing what color. In the next dream, my friend and i am sitting in the doctor's office, and this guy comes and asks if he can talk to me, and my friends says no twice, then my friend gets up to talk to the doctor and i say ok i will talk to you, then my friend turns around and tells me she will be having a girl, and i am extremely happy, and me and this guy walk outside, where the sun is very bright.
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- Q. I have one alive wife now i love a muslim girl.She also want to marrie me.I have three children.i am a govt. servent.The parrents of new girl like to me for their girl but they dont know i am married.That girl knows about my wife.I want to marrie with her.In sariayat this is allowed to me so ls reply.
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- Q. I want to ask u one thing regarding i am from india,hyderabad & now i am in dubai from 4 months i am always miss my wife i remind her even in namaz also so can u sujjest me wht i should do to remmember her less(yaad kamm aye) take care.
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- Q. My question is if your not married anymore do I need a wahlkil to get married and if I do how would I go about it?
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- Q. If a man has practiced mutually willed adultry with a woman, will it be permissible for him to marry her? i asked this question to two Ullemas but i got contrast verdicts, so i request you to explain whatever verdict is authentic. I also heard that compunsation of fornication to an unmarried person is to get wipped 80 times. so i need to ask if the person needs to get this punishment, whom does he confess to as there is no implemented islamic sharia law anywhere. please help me out with my questions. i will wait for your reply.
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- Q. I have three questions 1) can a husband touch, insert his fingers in her wife\'s private parts during foreplay.(Is this act considered as modesty). 2) can a husband put some jam or honey on his wife breast and some other parts (not on private parts) and lick from there.(Is this act considered as modesty). 3) can a husband put his private part in between his wifes breast and between his wifes buttocks during foreplay.(Is this act considered as modesty).
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- Q. If husband and wife do not do sex, in how many days their Nikah will be broken?
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- Q. I have a question regarding merriage. I know a girl from my student times, but she is Qadiyani, and i m a Sunni Muslim. We both want to marry, but the problem occurs from my side is, that she is Qadiyani, and as far as i know, Muslim are not allowed to marry Qadiyanis. I talked to the Girl, and she told me, that she is ready to give up qadiyaniyat, and want to become a Sunni Muslim. But if she does that, her parents will not accept this conversion. The question which occurs here is, whether it is allowed to marry her, if she converts from Qadiyanit to Islam?? And is that allowed in Islam, that she marries me, without her parents permissions? Please reply me as soon as possible. I will be very thankfull for your quick reply.
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- Q. Two people who wanted to secretly get married, went to a public place and approached two male strangers. The man who wanted to get married, asked the strangers in urdu, if they spoke urdu. The men replied that they did. Then the couple in front of these two men, said the proposal and acceptance and immediately left. My question is, is this nikah valid? The couple only assumed the strangers to be muslim because they spoke urdu, and there is now no way for them to get in contact with them so as to ask if they are actually muslim.
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- Q. jin aurton se boso kinar kiya gaya ho unki aulad se shadi kaisi hai chahe aurat ki kitni bhi umar ho
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- Q. I am loving my Aunt's daughter for past eight years. Now we want to marry each other. The problem is that my mother and elder brother is not accepting it because her family members not good in attitude(anger, breaking other hearts by words). We love each other very much. If I not marrying her then she will do suicide. Without her I can't imagine my married life. Please guide me in proper way so that I can get good guidance.
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- Q. One of my friend's daughter wanted to marry a converted Muslim (he was Hindu before) and now he claims that he is a Muslim and read Kalima " Tasshhud"... is it OK for them to go ahead with this marriage.. or anything else required to make this marriage valid. Your detail answer will be highly appreciated.
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- Q. I am 23 years of age, about 13 or 14 years ago my mother had told my Aunt (mother's younger sister) that she(my mother) would do marriage of me with her(Aunt's) daughter, and since the time this came to know me (7-8 years before) I have been refusing time and time again. And now some months before my mother wanted to make my engagement with my Aunt's(mother's younger sister) daughter, and on that occasion i refused with much anger, Actually i can't spend even a day with them (Aunt's Family), I can't comprmise with them. My mother told me a few days before that if I don't do so, "do wherever you want and I would not live with your wife and you as well". Actually my Aunt has no son (had but died) and my mother says that this marriage would help her out, but I think if it happens so this would end with much pain and sufferings. And so thats why I am much disturbed now a days because of this situation. Due to this situation I had been stopped talking with my mother for a month but now it looks fine enough. Whole of my family is with me including my father. What should i do now? Please help me out.
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- Q. If a man is doing sex with his wife and the time of doing sex,the milk of his wife comes into his mouth so is it necessary for that person to spit out the milk that comes into his mouth?
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- Q. I am 19 years old...i want to marry a girl, she is 2 years elder than me...also she lives in kuwait and me in india...i never saw her, just talked through text chat...i like her,she is really good and honest...i would like to know, can i marry to her though she is 2 years elder than me...i know it would be better if i would be elder than her or equal to her age...so what does the shariah says about it...is this nikah possible ??? plz answer me in detail...if possible...
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- Q. We are writing this email to you as we are in utter distress. My husband and I both are born Muslims (Alhamdulillah) from India and are currently residing in the UAE. We have a grownup daughter who had gone to Canada for higher studies. There she met one Sikh boy and they decided to get married; now our daughter is asking our permission. The girl is 23 years of age and the boy is 27. Both are having good jobs in their respective country of residences. Facts: The boy is ready to accept Islam before getting married to the girl. The boy is ready to come to the UAE to revert to Islam, learn everything and get married as per the Muslim tradition. (Nikah) The conversion is going to be kept secret from the boys parents. Currently the boys parents are ready to accept a Muslim girl as their daughter-in-law. After the wedding the girl will be living with the boy and his parents in the same house. The boys parents do not have any objection to the girl following her faith in their house. The boy will be following/practicing Islam in secrecy. The boy is their only male child so he cannot abandon them to live separately with the girl. As the girls parents we met the boy and his family. The boy is very nice and sincere and is promising that he would follow the new faith and will keep our daughter happy. The parents are also very nice also said that they have no issues if the girl is going to continue to keep her faith after marrying their boy. But they do not wish their son to change his faith. Issues: (2) Is it correct for an individual to revert to Islam in secrecy of his parents and especially for a girl? (3) Will the boy be able to practice Islam in that house? (4) What will be the fate of their children? (5) The boy is promising us that their children will follow the faith of the mother (Islam) and not of the paternal grandparents (Sikhism). (6) Dilemma: If we give our consent to this marriage then we will be taking a big risk by allowing our daughter to spend the rest of her life with a threat of the boy going back to his old faith (7) If we say no then we are afraid of stopping/denying an individual to embrace Islam. We are requesting you to kindly guide us with either Fatwa or advise so as to make the decision easy for us. As we love our daughter like all parents; we are trying to work a way for her happiness. Kindly treat this matter as URGENT and reply as soon as possible.
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