- Social Matters >> Nikah (Marriage)
- Total Questions : 581
- Q. Is it ok for a girl whose both parents are syed to marry a guy who isnt a syed when everything else is ok or should the parents wait to see if they find a syed boy?
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- Q. Assalamwalaikum, Is it true that a muslim man can marry a christian or jew girl without converting her to islam as i have heard that in quran it is mentioned that a man can marry people of book and the girl should not be an atheist or from any other religion.
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- Q. Is it allowed to have intercourse with your on 1st or 15th or the last night of an islamic moth. because i was told no to do it in these three days of an islamic month?
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- Q. My Husband forced me to do not respect parda and forced me as to be a sexy dress and style after marriage in 1996, Then i took divorce in 2001. I had one daugter from him. In 2003 he forced me to remarry or eother he will take out her daughter from her. So my brothers refused and then after full force he said me to remarry in another country as thailand so i remaried him in 2003 and after that he gone away & i never seen him for more than four years, Neither i know he is alive or nor dead. He only did remarriage to give me a big trouble so that i can never marry to other person. But now in 2008 i came to know that he is in a city that i dont know and had married another woman and have childrens. Now i want to marry another person from pakistan and he is on visit of three months only. So please help me that can i take divorce in court but i am not sure about his address and any contact no more. So my court is ready to give me talaq as my judge is acting as representative of my husband in his absence. As a long time is gone and i free from any pregnancy so will i marry to that person of pakistan dierect after divorce Or either i will have to wait for Iddat period but i am already free from pregnancy as he didn't touched me more for more than fr problem is that the pakistani person is going back to his country and may impossible to come back again. Please help in the light of islamic views. Jazakumullah
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- Q. Is contraceptive pills/Condom/Tablets like Mala-D are permissible in Islam to control birth temporarly?
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- Q. I have two inter-linked questions for you please. According to Islamic Sharia, Muslim men are allowed to marry non-Muslim women from Ahle-Kitaab (people of Book). Muslim women are not allowed to do so. Question 1: I have a friend named Fatima living in Luxemburg (small non-Muslim country in Europe with hardly any Muslim population) who converted to Islam few years ago. She is the only Muslim in her entire family. She wants to get married now but she cannot find a suitable Muslim man in Luxemburg. She cannot leave her country and her parents who are very old and move to a Muslim country to get married. She also cannot leave her country because of financial issues. In such scenario, can she marry a noble Christian, Jew or even Hindu, Buddhist or Parsi man? My friend, Fatima, is very very worried so please answer this ASAP and also answer this question in email too as Alim Online is not available in Luxemburg. Question 2: Can a Muslim man, living in a non-Muslim country, marry a Hindu, Buddhist or Parsi woman IF he cannot find a suitable Muslim woman? For example a Muslim man living in Bhutan or Japan where there is very little Muslim population? Please explain this in context of Muslims living in non-Muslim countries in cases where they cannot find suitable Muslims for marriages.
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- Q. Whether a girl is permitted to be married without her father's permission?
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- Q. I would like to know whether one has to pay the Din Meher at the time of Nikah,i.e, first time when husband meets his wife or is it that he can pay afterwards? 2)If he pays the Din Meher afterwards ,is it allowed for him to talk or have any physical contact with her?Answer can be given in Urdu also.
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- Q. My freind wants to ask that can he marry his Maternal aunt " Khala " if she is marryed to his uncle "Chacha".
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- Q. I want to marry a girl(Fathima) who is handicapped. She doesn't have both of her legs. We both wants to marry each other. But my parents are strongly against this decision. My parents think that we will not be able to deliver children if we marry. My parents also think that they may need to put extra hard work to take care of Fathima after marriage. So, they are totally against our decision. But myself and Fathima have taken up the decision to marry. We have also decided that parent's permission is essential for our marriage. Since i am the only one taking care of my parents, i cannot afford to leave my parents. My parents and Fathima, both are inevitable for my life. InshAllah please advice how to convince my parents in islamic view point. What should i do now?
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- Q. I would like to marry at simple (as per sharia) from beginging to ending (i.e. From Sukrana to Valima), hence please advise me how we did the same. Awaiting ur earlier reply. Kindly hide my my name and e-mail id.
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- Q. My Question is i liked my cousin 4 years back and at that time i asked my mother permission as well she said ok i agree.But there was no proper engagement or nikkah or even talked between our parents happened. But now after 4 years mother is taking out lots of negative things in that girl and my mother is also saying that you are helping her family alot and i am noticing from the beginning but now is enough and mother is saying they are involve in BLACK MAGIC etc etc and i know i did not help her or her family in any cause ...Now for us its like getting a divorce after long JUST friendship and conversations of our future etc etc. Now what should i do? Do i have to follow my mother instruction or fight with mother which is not the solution i m confuse please advise and i have already told my cousin that i cant marry you and my family is happy but is there any solution becuase me and my cousin we are not able to find a peace we are praying to Allah Subhanatallah but still no peace please advise.
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- Q. I am doing job in UAE.before two year my marrige was done . before 1 and 1/2 year living alone in UAE. my wife in india. my salary is also less i cant afford to family with me. please reply me what can i do?
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- Q. I wanted to know about the things that invalidate nikah automatically.i.e, i have heard that if a married person does zinaah then his nikah becomes invalid with his life partner.so i wanted to know even the minutest things that invalidate a persons nikah.i want its complete details.its really imp .for me to know this thing is really imp.. please for god sake do reply.
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- Q. Up till now I was thinking Islam never allows any thing like Oral sex with spouse..... but now I have doubts. I would like to have you point of view of Oral sex in Islam... Is it legal if yes then up till what limit... Please explain... Regards
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- Q. My wife wants to visit and stay with her aunty for a few days, there are ghair mahram in the auntys house,first being her auntys husband. I have told my wife she cant go because of this problem, she still insists to go and is angry with me for not letting her go.We both live in my parents house, my brother lives in same house who is unmarried, now her point is is that parda should be applied in parents house, if it is not then she should be allowed to go to see aunty where there is also ghair mahram. At the minute i cannot find seprate accomodation due to financial. My question is what can i do in this situation and should i allow my wife to go to see her aunty and live there for a few days? Jazakallah, sorry if the question is too long but i needed to put full details infront of you.
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- Q. I love a girl, she was hindu at present. i can marry her after converting into islam. please answer as early as possible.
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- Q. When is sexual intercourse haraam and when is it makrooh. And what is haraam during sexual intercourse and what is makrooh. Is there any act which done during sexual intercourse cause the child to be abnormal? What is the best things to eat during pregnecy?
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- Q. I am a young man of 34 years. Unmarried but looking for a bride. Very soon, i will marry inshallah. I think, i do not know about sex life how to amuse wife. So sometimes, i watch sketc drawing/ still photos/cartoon/3-d animations of sexual intercourse with a view to learning it and amusing my future wife. Is it a sin ? If yes, how can i learn it?
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- Q. My question is to do with confidentiality in a marriage. I have had some problems in my marriage and for some 2 months i tried to resolve these with my husband but he refused to enagage in discussion and was sleeping in a seperate bedroom. My understanding was that I could then involve intermediaries to help resolve our problems which I did from both sides of the family. In order to get their help I needed to explain the problems we had, my husband was angry that I had explained our problems to others and said that we should deal with these ourselves, he felt personally attacked by his and my family. He retaliated by attacking my character and making insinuations that I had a bad character through his brother who spoke to my sister. I am very saddened by this and wanted advice as to whether I was right or wrong to involve intermediaries?
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