Title: I wanted to ask about something which is hard to ask to any other moulana or mufti....but alhamdulillah darul uloom deoband has given me this oppurtunity to ask such a question from those ullama who i really admire and wish to be like themmm...soo i just wanted to ask how can i control my self in having evil thoughts about woman which leads me to masterbation sometimes...and i want to get rid of this evil thing that i do..so inshaallah may allah grants that aalim jannatul firdaws from whose answer inshaallah my life could change and i could also be a better muslim and be like like those of ullamae deoband...and i request any aalime deen to make sincere duaa for me.
Question: assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu wa magfiratuhu. I wanted to ask about something which is hard to ask to any other moulana or mufti....but alhamdulillah darul uloom deoband has given me this oppurtunity to ask such a question from those ullama who i really admire and wish to be like themmm...soo i just wanted to ask how can i control my self in having evil thoughts about woman which leads me to masterbation sometimes...and i want to get rid of this evil thing that i do..so inshaallah may allah grants that aalim jannatul firdaws from whose answer inshaallah my life could change and i could also be a better muslim and be like like those of ullamae deoband...and i request any aalime deen to make sincere duaa for me..jazaakallahu khair..assallamualaikum
Answer ID: 6372Posted on:
Sep 1, 2020
Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !
(Fatwa: 1159/1029=D/1429)
We pray to Allah for you that you may get rid of this wicked act. You yourself should pray to Allah for the same and pledge with firm determination not to do this bad act in future. Because of this very act, some previous nations have been punished. It is in the Hadith that some people will be resurrected in the Day of Judgment with their hands pregnant i.e. those who play with their private parts through their hands. You should think of disgust, vice and harm of this evil deed. Whenever, such feelings come to your mind, you should turn away your mind from that and engross yourself in doing some thing else. You should strive hard to keep your eyes, heart and mind free form casting an evil look and having bad thoughts. Before going to bed, you should meditate for awhile, ponder over bad effects of this act, do repentance, seek forgiveness of Allah and pray Him to protect you form it.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband, India