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Question # : 450


Assalam alaikum

I am recently married and I have very important questions regarding my personal life kindly help me because I cannot find it in the books my question is

1.can I touch and kiss, lick and play with my wifes sensitive organ(sharmgah)

2. if she delivered a child and if her milk goes into my mouth should i spit it out and by mistake if it goes into my or swallows it

3. if our sensitive organs touches each other do we got to take bath 4. do i have to offer 2 rakat namaz before every intecouse please help me. Allah hafiz!

Answer : 450

Published on: May 22, 2007

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

(Fatwa: 320=291/N)

(1) This act is similar to the act of animals and is against human nature, which is undesirable and disliked:

اذا ادخل الرجل ذکرہ في فم امراتہ فقد قیل یکرہ و قد قیل بخلافہ (عالمگیری، 5/374)


(2) One should not suck the breast of his wife, because the milk may go inside the mouth. The milk of a woman is haram for everyone except for a child. But, if a husband swallows it mistakenly it will not have any bad effect on Nikah:

ولم یبح الارضاع بعد مدتہ لانہ جزء آدمي والانتفاع بہ لغیر ضرورة حرام علی الصحیح (الدر المختار، 4/397، ط زکریا، دیوبند)


(3) Ghusl (taking bath) will not be obligatory only by touching of sensitive organs until the glans (the head of the penis) enters the vagina:

وفرض الغسل ۔۔۔ عند ایلاج الحشفة ھی مافوق الختان زاد الزیلعی من راس الذکر الخ (الدر المختار، 1/298، ط زکریا، دیوبند)


(4) Performing two rakat prayers before every intercourse is neither necessary nor it is proved. It is good if anyone offers it, but he should offer it with the intention of nafl, not sunnah and wajib.

Allah knows Best!

Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband

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