I have spent 40 days twice in tabligh jamah but nowadays I get no interest in jamah and frankly hate them specially the young guys. Because I have observed that they just keep beard and wear kurta for worldly purpose, till the time they are in jamah they act as angel. As soon as they reach their own area, start acting like devils and harass us. The main concern is that I have promised Allah that monthly I will be donating some amount from my salary to tabligh as nusrat like arranging dawat etc. But nowadays I do not like to donate it even I hate tablighi. I am concerned about my promise made to Allah, shall I continue donating or not? But I love tabligh but not the workers of the same.
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
You should love tabligh and keep on going in jamah with pious persons. Also keep on the promise which you made with Allah to donate in tabligh as support from your salary as per you capacity. If you will help the friends of Allah, the help and blessings from Allah shall visit you and your problems shall be removed. It is not good to hate tablighi jamah and any Muslim. You should also keep on supplicating for the said persons as well as spend time with them in order to try to reform them.
Allah knows Best!
Darul Uloom Deoband